Perspectives 1

When I me or your hear about an extra marital affair..


If its a male 

He must be frustrated in life.
He must not be getting the required support at home.
He must have got a really better option.
What can he do if someone else is behind him like crazy!
Men are like that .. its okay!
He'll be back home in sometime...all this is just temporary!


If its a Female

She is a characterless.
She must have been like this, even before marriage.
She should have been patient, ups and downs happen.
If she was stressed, she could have talked it out with someone, there are so many people around us.
She is too ambitious.
She might be needy in terms of finances.
She should have thought about the reputation of the family.
She should have thought about her children, what effect would it have on them.
She has brought disrepute to the entire family, relatives and also neighbourhood.
Her family would never forgive her.
Her husband is so good!
She looks so innocent, never thought she could so this!
Poor family, its like a blot on them for the lifetime, may God give them the strength to cope with it!



We need to give ourselves a reality pinch.
This might happen with your sister, friend or some relative OR
your brother, friend or some relative.

For heaven's sake please don't be judgemental.

Let them be!